A Teen's Journey to Black Sash
For many teenagers, balancing school, homework, and life can be a lot to handle. But for one of AAMA's teenage instructors, Kung Fu has been a constant source of strength, confidence, and stress relief over the years.
This young instructor started his Kung Fu journey at just three and a half years old, progressing from the Little Dragons program to earning a black sash in the adult class. Now, 16 years later, he's a second-degree black sash working toward his third-degree test. Reflecting on how Kung Fu shaped him, he shared: "I don't remember much about who I was before Kung Fu, but I can imagine what I'd be like without it. It probably wouldn't have been great. Kung Fu helped me grow into a much more respectful, confident person."
Gaining Confidence Through Challenges
While he admits he was shy at the start, years of practice and teaching helped him grow into a confident leader. "I used to be so quiet I could barely raise my voice," he said. "Now I'm comfortable talking to people of all ages and handling different situations. Teaching has played a huge role in that."
Kung Fu as Stress Relief
When life gets stressful — school, homework, or anything else — Kung Fu provides a release. "It's kind of a good way to lift the load off my shoulders," he explained. "Punching a bag, sparring, even practicing stances — it all helps me relax."
Advice for New Students
As a teacher, he emphasizes two things for beginners:
Try Your Hardest
Effort matters more than perfection.
Ask Questions
"As a teacher, I'll never get mad at you for asking questions. The more you ask, the more you learn."
He also encourages students to embrace the harder parts of training: "If you only do easy things, life will be hard. But if you're willing to do hard things, life becomes easier. That's the kind of mindset that makes a great student."
Lessons Beyond the Mat
"Nearly everything you learn here applies to life," he said. "Balance isn't just physical — it's metaphorical. The lessons we get in Kung Fu, like the message of the week, stick with you and can guide you wherever you go." His journey is a powerful reminder of how martial arts can shape character, build confidence, and provide tools to handle whatever life throws your way.
Take the First Step Today
Bellevue teens and families are welcome to start their Kung Fu journey with a supportive first step, right now.